He won’t commit, but he also won’t leave you alone. And this analogy explains exactly why. When a man keeps coming back without ever giving you the relationship you asked for, it’s not love. It’s access. He doesn’t want to commit, but he doesn’t want to lose the comfort, validation, and loyalty you give him. It’s like walking into a store wanting a brown dress… and they keep bringing you black, navy, burgundy. Options, but never what you asked for. Some men do the same. They offer substitutes an